Stop Beating Yourself Up!

calling-facial-expression-girl-1181591God, I sit here early in the morning desiring more of You and thinking about how I totally did not wake up early to my alarm clock as planned.  I try so hard to discipline myself to do the things my flesh doesn’t want to do, but constantly fail at it.

Have you been there?

Feeling like your heart yearns to wake up really early to spend uninterrupted time with God or just to wake up early to do something that’s important to you, but because of being too sleepy or just not waking up to your alarm clock in time, you fail miserably. We’ve all been there, and as many of you can see, this is an area that I am continuously having to improve in.

The one thing that God keeps reminding me of is that He is a loving God and that

“there is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after  the flesh, but after the Spirit” (Romans 8:1 KJV). 

This should bring comfort to your heart because God is not a tyrant who would beat you down for not waking up to your alarm clock or harp on you for not checking off something from your to-do or goal list that you may have been determined to complete in a certain amount of time.

Despite our failures and flaws, God is faithful to His Word and still loves us.  That’s what I love about God and His Word.  He is not caught up into how good we performed a task or how proficient we are with handling a certain thing. He loves us regardless of how good or bad we perform.  Praise God for that!

beach-beautiful-dawn-40192God constantly reassures me that I don’t need to walk in shame, guilt, or condemnation for not waking up early to spend time with Him or to work on something He has put on my heart to work on before work, or quite frankly, at any given time.

Since He is an infinite God, He is timeless and can redeem the limited time we feel we have. That’s an area I had struggled with for many years, even presently.  Thinking that I have to always schedule God into my affairs, but God constantly reminding me that He is ALWAYS present, ALWAYS in tune with our hearts, ALWAYS concerned about what we’re concerned about, and ALWAYS speaking to us.

If you are struggling with feeling bad or guilty because you haven’t fulfilled everything on your to-do list or didn’t wake up early to spend the planned out time you had scheduled with God, or are struggling with feeling guilty for constantly not following through with what you tell yourself you are going to do, know that God STILL loves you unconditionally.

I’m going to say it again! God STILL loves you unconditionally and has probably already forgotten that you didn’t wake up in time when your alarm clock went off.

If He’s not going to beat you up about it, then stop beating yourself up and ruining your whole day because you think you messed up or that you’re not a disciplined person.  Know that you are not alone.

2 Timothy 2:13 NIV

If we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself.

Dear God, 

I ask that you comfort whoever is reading this message and remind them how much You love them despite their flaws.  Thank you for your peace that passes all understanding and for never leaving nor forsaking whoever’s reading this message. Give them a greater desire for You and in being obedient to whatever You have for them.  I thank You that this message will encourage, inspire, and bless the individual who really needs to hear this message, in Jesus name I pray, amen!

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Thank you so much for reading this blog and embarking upon this inspirational journey of life with me!  If you were encouraged, inspired, or can identify with the message/story, please feel free to comment.  I’m sure others will be encouraged by hearing YOUR story. 




10 thoughts on “Stop Beating Yourself Up!

  1. WOW Ryan, as I read your Inspirational Blog, I personally felt that God Himself had A hand in this message. I too have struggled with this, not spending the allotted time that I said that I was going to spend with the Lord but, God gives us Grace And Mercies and he is indeed a merciful God. The scripture says that God forgives and remembers no more after he forgives us of our trespasses, so, I thank you for sharing this inspirational blog with the world we need to hear/read this in the times in which we live where there are turbulent times that we are living in. In Revelations speaks of these days… were there would be sons against fathers and mothers against children, earthquakes, we can see that we are living in the time that pointed out in God’s Word, it goes on to say…when you see all of these things occurring know that the end is near. So, we are blessed by your message{I know that I am}. We need to hear of God’s GOODNESS, GRACE, KINDNESS, And MERCY that overflows like an ocean. My heart is forever grateful and thankful that you’re BLESSING the world with your talent, your gift. Keep blessing the world with your message and by doing that the world will be blessed and God will in turn bless you! Veonka

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    1. Thanks so much for taking the time to read this message. In a day and time when the world has so many demands, I felt led to share this message and speak from my personal experience.

      I’m grateful that you can relate and that God has given you a word to also share with the world. You’re definitely an encourager, so I always appreciate your truth filled words from the heart. Thank you for being you😘


    1. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog! I’m so glad that you were encouraged and inspired by the message :-). Please feel free to share the message with others, do you know me experience something similar.


  2. Oh my goodness, what a timely message. So many of us struggle with beating ourselves up and feeling guilt or shame when we drop the ball or fail. Your message is one of hope, love and peace. Thank you so much for this beautiful post.


    1. Thanks so much for commenting and sharing your thoughts on this message Kari Anne! I’m so grateful that I’m not alone and that you can also relate. God has definitely helped me in this area of my life, so I believe that through my experiences and openness about my struggle in this area, that many people will also be set free. Thank you so much for following my blog and cheering me on my friend! Nice to virtually meet you! I’m cheering you on in your journey as well:-)

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